LET HER BREATHE TOO.

‘’ Look at her, she is not a virgin’’- GIRL 1

‘’ She did it before tying the knot, what a disgrace.’’- GIRL 2

‘’Absolutely, her parents trust her so much.’’ – GIRL 1

I hate both the kinds.

They belong to our generation and go around claiming to have the broadest minds ever. They think themselves as the best of the lot since they are ‘pure’. They have saved themselves for a stranger their parents will set them off with. That’s not a problem.

So, what exactly is wrong with them?

They are doing what the society taught them to. They won’t go around at night since good girls don’t go out at night. They won’t get drunk because their elder siblings didn’t. They won’t wear a short dress either.

But, they’ll judge the ones who do! They’ll judge the ones who wish to make love with someone they truly love. They’ll judge the girls who get drunk like their brothers at night. They’ll judge the ones who wear that tube-top to the shopping mall. They’ll judge the ones who do what they want to!

Is minding your own business, that big an issue? Is being non-judgmental that hard?

How does drinking for fun make her a disgrace to our society? Your brother did that too. For fun. She has a life and she deserves to live it the way she wants to. Common, you felt like trying it too. But you didn’t. Because girls don’t drink in our culture. Whoa. She did because the best culture is to follow your heart.

How does wearing that mini skirt make her a slut? You want to do that too. Maybe you are self-conscious or fat or typically narrow-minded. Maybe she is not doing it for the boys. Maybe, she loves pampering herself. She is confident. How does that make her cheap and available? Think, for a change.

How does making love with the man she loves more than anyone else in this world make her a used piece? Who are you to tell if it’s right or wrong? The society told you that? This society used to burn women too. Maybe she is sure about him. Maybe she thinks he is the right guy for her. Maybe she loves him way too much. Maybe she felt right to do it with him.

Society feeds us with certain facts since the time we are born. You accept them without giving them a thought, and she is the one who is a disgrace? Forming opinions about someone just on the basis of her alcohol history or the virginity test is totally cool? 

Check your thoughts.

Is having fun banned? Is doing what your heart wants to, wrong? Is following the feel you get at that moment anti- Indian culture.

Tomorrow, your daughter might just fight with you to let her be. To let her fly too just like your son. And you ask her not to. Because it’s not right. She’ll still fly without telling you.

 Is that what you want?

Why not just change your mind for a second and think about it? Why not form opinions based upon your experiences rather than the already penned down rules. Why not have an open mind for a moment and stop judging her.

Just, THINK ABOUT IT.

P.S. You'll judge me on the basis of this post. Go ahead. Unlike you, I won't judge you back.

P.P.S I saw live cat sex in the morning today. And guess what, I didn't judge the cats.